Talking To Teens
Talking to Teens is not the easiest. First you must find the appropriate time. Don’t come to a teen with an agenda or a to do list. This is a sure way your teen will head for the hills. Conversation will flow the best when they are natural. If you want to bring up items like chores, concerns, friends they are hanging out with, too much video time, etc you must find the right moment when they will be receptive to your feedback.
Don’t expect your teen to do what you ask if you cannot do it yourself. They are and have been watching you to set the example. How can you expect them to get out of the house and engage in life if all you do is sit at home isolated yourself?
Talking To Teens
Starting A Conversation
Observe
Approach in a judgment free manner. Letting your teen see that you are watching them and you notice the following:
- A change in their peer group and hanging out less with the friends they used to be with.
- That school grades and their work is suffering. Instead of yelling and demanding you may want to offer some extra help.
- Their mood has shifted and appears darker.
- They have lost interest in hobbies and things that once excited them.
Research and Ask Around
Go online and find helpful resources that equip you to deal with the specific issues you see in your teen. Know the facts before you approach your child. Sites like Cry for Help is solely for parents needing to gain knowledge and support.
Share Experiences of Your Own.
You may have mental health issues or disorders yourself. You see yourself in your teen and can recognize the symptoms. Remain positive and upbeat with your tone of voice. Try to remind them that if they are struggling with what appears to be a mental health issue is normal and very common among teens.
Talking To Teens
My Teen Wants to Talk To Me
Talking To Teens
Give Them The Tools
Seek mental health counseling for your teen. You’re the parent so don’t be surprised if they do not understand how to open up to you. I have several years of experience working with teens. Read my approach to conducting therapy with teens. This affects the entire family. Support for you as the parent is vital. Call today and let’s get them the help they need.
