1. You both find that communication is not going well.

There never seems to be a resolution after long talks. Your left feeling worse a lot of the times. You are left feeling anxious and start to avoid deep conversation at all.

2. Getting along with in laws is a struggle.

You dread holidays because you know your going to face the in laws. You see your partner or spouse always siding with them and making comments that are passive aggressive to you. Just the thought of having to see them makes you want to run the other way.

3. You feel large amounts of contempt.

You may be resentful because your spouse is home all day. Your frustrated because it is not clean when you come home. You want to avoid a fight so you do not speak about it.

4. Your children are pretending to not see or admit that fighting is occurring.

They have become so used to it that they don’t get phased by it anymore. If they do they certainly are not going to tell you since your not able to have the emotional stability to handle the information.

5. Your not feeling the attraction like you once did.

The physical attraction is dissipating. There is no excitement in the relationship. You think that there might be something wrong with you. All attempts fail to rekindle the spark.

6. Your parenting approaches just do not line up.

One is seen as the bad or mean parent while the other is the fun parent. This creates resentment and anger.

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